HOT MESS Express is a multi-state nonprofit that provides quick, essential household assistance to mothers in varying states of need. Hot Mess Express functions via local chapters. Nicole Young and Kandayce Pollard lead the charge in Bowling Green.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Bowling Green chapter is relatively new but has sprung into action. Candidates are selected by a process of nomination. \u201cWe have a group on Facebook and have close to 500 members,\u201d said Nicole Young. \u201cPeople will post anonymously, or they will direct-message me or Kandayce with the name of the nominee, a mom they know who needs help \u2014 or you can nominate yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe put them together in a big list and then decide. We set up everything with them; we don\u2019t post their name or personal information. The info\u2019s not open to the public. We don\u2019t post the name of the mom we\u2019re helping or her kids or situation. Only Kandayce and I will know her information, aside from people who come to volunteer.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The next step in the process is to assemble those groups of volunteers. \u201cWe do a public meeting spot. People will volunteer for a specific date we\u2019ve scheduled and however many volunteers will show up at that spot. We carpool from there because not everybody has the address.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hot Mess Express performs vital tasks that make an actual impact in their lives. \u201cIt\u2019s essentially just going in, doing dishes, laundry, and cleaning. It\u2019s free and anonymous. We do deliver supplies to them. For our latest household, we got all new bedsheets for the mother and her children. We gave them necessities like a toothbrush, toothpaste, shampoo, body wash, laundry detergent \u2014 things that are kind of expensive. They\u2019re donated to us by people in the community. We say, \u2018Dig them out and reset the home completely, with all the cleaning duties.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The situations do vary. Sometimes, there is extensive interaction with the family, and sometimes it is just the opposite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cRecently,\u201d Young relates, \u201cThe mother and her children left and let us clean. The woman had a friend who was there in the home instead of her and her kids. She was truly anonymous. No one even saw her face.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Hot Mess team deals with some harrowing situations. \u201cOur latest mother is a single mom who was left with four children. She had no trash service, no cell phone, and stuff like that. So we talked to people in the community and got her set up with things she needs that she can\u2019t necessarily afford right now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How does someone not let the worry follow them home at the end of the day? \u201cIt\u2019s very hard. I don\u2019t! Not very well. I worry a lot and hope the mother\u2019s situation is okay. For the last one, we left the mother. It wasn\u2019t too cold, but it was getting there, and her gas heat wasn\u2019t set up. Kandayce and I both hoped it would get fixed for her. We\u2019ve kept in contact with the moms a little bit and just checked in and made sure everything\u2019s good. The last one was crying and saying, \u2018I don\u2019t deserve this. You didn\u2019t have to come.\u2019 It\u2019s hard to turn it off. I worry a lot about peoples\u2019 situations.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Luckily, The Bowling Green chapter has resources. \u201cSlim Chickens, the food chain, has sponsored us. For every cleaning we do, we get free meals to feed the volunteers and gift cards to give to the mothers for free meals for them and their children.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nationally, Hot Mess Express is in a period of expansion. Young relates, \u201cThere are around 32 chapters currently. They\u2019re more in the South and Southeast, but I think they\u2019re spreading outward more.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHot Mess Express is going to get grants now and send the local chapters care packages. There will be more resources for us and the chapters at the beginning of next year. We\u2019re going to have a lot more resources and things to help more,\u201d said Young.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hot Mess Express and the Bowling Green chapter have a set outreach. For example, providing assistance with housing or obtaining a car is not part of the group\u2019s scope. \u201cIn essence, we\u2019re there to reset the home, which eases the burden for the mother and aids the entire household,\u201d Young said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Even with support and resources, maintaining a household and ensuring your kids\u2019 well-being can be daunting. For those without support and resources, it can be dire. Hot Mess Express can reset lives by resetting the home. GN<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" HOT MESS Express is a multi-state nonprofit that provides quick, essential household assistance to mothers in varying states of need. Hot Mess Express functions via local chapters. Nicole Young and Kandayce Pollard lead the charge in Bowling Green. The Bowling Green chapter is relatively new but has sprung into action. Candidates are selected by a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":21355,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"yoast_head":"\n