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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nTheir story opens in Shelbyville with Robert and Tabby working in the Big Springs Shopping Center businesses in the late \u201890s. When time allowed and their paths crossed, they forged a friendship over shared interests, swapping life updates and stories along the way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tabby played the role of the hardworking protagonist, opening her own business in June 2000. The odds were stacked higher than the reams of paper in The Express supply room against the single mom of three and her business that offered copy and fax services to the general public. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Soon, Robert and Tabby\u2019s life circumstances changed, and romance sparked, complementing their solid friendship. Marriage followed, and the change in the lives of Tabby and her three children was immediate and overwhelmingly positive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWhen we married in May of 2003, it was the happiest day of our lives. And I mean all of our lives. Brock and Robert connected instantly through their love of music. Lauren and Paisley were intrigued but cautious. Robert came into our family amid chaos and settled the storm. We were all so happy,\u201d said Tabby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In cinematic timing, everything changed. \u201cBrock wrote a poem about how Robert completed all of us in December 2003,\u201d she said. \u201cLittle did we know that in January of 2004, we would lose our precious Brock forever in a snow skiing youth trip with a local church. On that day and every day since, Robert has literally carried us and held us up as a family.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Being present for Tabby and the girls is as natural as breathing for Robert. He said, \u201cIt goes back to my childhood. I want to give them what I didn\u2019t have, and that\u2019s just unconditional love.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Some feared the worst for the couple, pointing out that many marriages collapse around the loss of a child. Her business was equally vulnerable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cRobert supported me through everything. It was sketchy as to whether I would make it through Brock\u2019s death as a fairly new business owner, but with the support of family and a very thoughtful banker who gave me a few months to get back on my feet, we survived and even thrived,\u201d Tabby said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She was thriving like many lead characters in the movies we love, pulled in too many directions. With Robert\u2019s blessing, Tabby purchased a gym and became a fitness instructor, was active in local theatre productions both on stage and behind the curtain, and held positions on various boards, all fueled by her commitment to giving her best to her community and a desire to challenge herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She sold the gym but continued to lead fitness classes at the Shelbyville Recreation Center. Preparation for the one hour class on top of work at The Express and her other outside activities filled most of her waking hours. Robert, her true prince charming, worked quietly beside her and held down the fort with family. He was happy for every minute he spent with her but longed for more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tabby said, \u201cI\u2019m so guilty of doing things just because I can or because someone asked me to. Maybe I always felt like I had to prove that I was better than what people thought of me. But I just kept on [saying yes], and all of a sudden, Robert said, \u2018I remember when it was just us working and doing everything together. I want my wife back.\u2019 And it hit me like, What am I doing? So after that, I pulled back, and now we\u2019re focusing solely on business and each other.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Not everyone understands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Robert said, \u201cThere have been customers who come in and ask, \u2018How do you work together every day?\u2019 For me, there\u2019s no other place I\u2019d rather be. I want to be by her side every day. Tabby is not just my wife; she\u2019s my best friend. She\u2019s everything. I just want to be with her all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI don\u2019t think I realized how much time I was taking away from him. He\u2019s always been there, making me feel safe and secure. He wanted to see me do all the things I always wanted to do,\u201d Tabby said. \u2018He wants to see me happy. But maybe that wasn\u2019t what was truly making me happy. I was searching, doing things I really loved, but it was just too much.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s a love that\u2019s still breathtaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI think my favorite thing about him is his kindness and the way he loves me. That love is like nothing I\u2019ve ever experienced before,\u201d she said. \u201cHe looks like a tough guy, but he\u2019s the most gentle, kind, loving man I have ever met in my whole life.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n And Robert\u2019s favorite thing about Tabby? \u201cShe constantly wants to see other people happy, and I love that about her,\u201d he said. They know their story is unique. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWe don\u2019t take this love for granted; we know this is special, and we\u2019re lucky. A lot of people don\u2019t have this,\u201d said Tabby. 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