NATALIE BROWN stood on the sidelines of the local recreational league’s field, cheering on her daughter, Aubrey Brown. For Natalie, it was a place where she learned important life lessons. In this space, Natalie was a coach, a cheerleader, and a confidante. Meanwhile, as she embraces the bat her mom passed down to her in the recreational league, Aubrey’s journey as a softball player is just beginning.
In the competitive and exhilarating realm of youth sports, devoted parents often support and guide their children on the path from playful beginnings to disciplined athletics. Natalie’s experience with sports began at a young age with recreational league slow-pitch softball and continued into high school. Playing sports as a child positively influenced Natalie’s upbringing. She learned the importance of discipline and dedication — qualities helpful in raising her daughter.
These lessons became her guiding principles as she watched her daughter, Aubrey, take the field for the first time. As a mother, Natalie walks a delicate line between being Aubrey’s biggest cheerleader and offering constructive criticism.
“Aubrey is incredibly hard on herself,” Natalie explained. “We usually discuss what happened in the games both on and off the field during our car ride home.”
During this time of reflection, Aubrey can process her performance and receive feedback in a supportive environment.
“At the end of the day, if she has done her best, then that is all I can ask of her,” Natalie added.
These moments help Aubrey learn and grow while constantly feeling appreciated and supported. Beyond the physical and competitive aspects, sports have taught Aubrey important core values like self-confidence, accountability, responsibility, and teamwork. Aubrey’s growing self-confidence is evident on and off the field, while her sense of accountability and responsibility has translated into her academic and personal life.
Like many young athletes, Aubrey has encountered her fair share of challenges, including losing games and experiencing the disappointment that follows. In these moments, Natalie reminds her that setbacks are a natural part of the game and offer important lessons for the future. She dedicates herself to helping Aubrey stay positive and recognize her incredible potential, encouraging her to embrace each hurdle as an opportunity for growth and improvement.
While playing middle school softball in sixth grade, Aubrey had an incredible experience with teamwork. She enthusiastically supported her teammates during varsity games even when she wasn’t playing, learning that being a great teammate involves empowering others.
To ensure that sports remain enjoyable, Natalie and her family make a concerted effort to play fun games at home, such as kickball and wiffle ball. Natalie believes it’s important to remember why they love playing in the first place — because it’s fun!
Academics are always a top priority in the Brown household. This emphasis guarantees Aubrey maintains a healthy balance between her studies, social activities, and sports commitments. By prioritizing education, Aubrey learns the importance of balancing different aspects of her life, preparing her for future responsibilities.
Winning is thrilling, but Natalie celebrates Aubrey’s efforts regardless of the outcome. Natalie emphasized that there is always something to be thankful for, even in the games the team loses. Celebrations come with a win-or-lose attitude — always being grateful that she’s getting to play the game.
Through sports, Aubrey has gained confidence and built new friendships. Like her mother’s, these experiences significantly contributed to her overall development, providing her a strong support network and a sense of belonging. The friendship and teamwork she experiences on the field translate into life skills that will benefit Aubrey in many areas of her life.
Aubrey said, “I love the teamwork, the new friendships, and working hard on the field.”
Being a parent to a young athlete has also been a profound learning experience for Natalie.
“I have realized my kids teach me more than I could ever learn anywhere else. Win or lose, I will love them no matter how they perform, and in turn, they love me right back. And that is ‘winning’ in my book.”
In this sports journey, Natalie and Aubrey exemplify where champions are truly made — not just on the field but in the values, lessons, and love they share along the way. Their story demonstrates the profound influence of sports on personal growth and the strengthening of family bonds. GN
